*** Istikharah ***

Assalamualaikum...

Alhamdulillah..its Friday & praised to Allah for what we have now & be thankful as we are still alive *heheee*

Several people *including me* I know are confused on the topic of istikharah. Is it meant to be done several times in a row until a decision is made or once is considered enough? tooo many questions running wild in your head is it?  *or im the only one?* 

When we perfom istikharah , we don't always get the answer in a dream...Remember that~  this is where most people mess up.. the answer can come in many forms such as things happening to keep you from doing something...so don't just be open to your dreams be receptive to everything and keep your eyes and ears ready..for whatever the result it is..there would always be reason behind it~!  

 

I've read a lot of people's story and experiences about Istikharah & Dreams..some were hoping to get the results right after they perform the solat..and few of them waiting hopelesssly for a dream to tell them the result..and some just straight away made their decision right after they got the dream *even if they are actually not confident enough with what they are doing*

Someone advised me to perform istikharah together with Solat Taubat & Solat Hajat..ive done that before, alhamdulillah things went smoothly perfect..its not that i got the answer *on who to chooose*  but..there's something inside of me that seriously made me feel calm..that strange feeelings actually made me strong & being rational in making decision. *alhamdulillah* 

Therefore in that sense i believe that most of you may also have been guided away from your situation in some weird and mysterious way...be ready for anything & have faith with Allah..He knows the best & even if its sometimes happen out of what you're hoping for..it happens for a reason..like seriously..we can always plan but He's the one who make it happen..*kun Fa Ya Kun*

INSYAALLAH 

"May Allah bless us with divine guidance from Himself and may He give us the understanding to make the correct decisions and may He put goodness in whatever He chooses for us to do. Amin~ Amin~ Amin ya rabbal alamin~ "

Have you ever heard about Pre-Mentrual Syndrome?

Do you experience PMS during your period? or maybe..do you have girlfriend,wife,sisters,cousins,aunties or maybe your mom who act weirdly during their period?? 

Well,the symptom might be normal for women who experienced the situation..but NOT for guys. Probably the biggest complaints of those dealing with PMS are mood swings..

Like me..every month I seem to go through the emotional wringer. I have several days of increasing irritability, followed by one day of anger, and then a day or two of depression and guilt over the way I've treated people.

Women are all different. Some get PMS, some (lucky ones) don't. And of those who get PMS, we all get different symptoms. Some physical, some emotional, some both. And some women are able to recognize it at the time (my friend will call me in tears thinking that her BF is about to leave her and at the same time say "I'm probably just being irrational, I'm due on so it's probably just PMS but I still feel this way") and some like me won't be able to recognize it until afterwards because it all seems SO REAL at that time... *funny rite?*

Here a list of emotions that alongside changing mood, can appear rapidly during your PMS :

• Increased emotional reactivity
• Depression
• Tearfulness
• Irritability
• Anger
• Anxiety 

Take a look at this You Tube - vlogging done by Maria Elena..I found this a long time ago, and it has loadsss of useful info & SHE'S DAYM FUNNY...hahah~ i love to see her vlogging~ Go Maria..Goooo~

Sources : "Adult Mood Swings". The Health Center. www.thehealthcenter.info.  

~ Welcoming 2012 ~

So I just returned from my other world.. *haha*

I didn't have time to even open my blogspot account for the last couples of month err..almost a year i think~ , so I'll start working on this blog very soon from now... *insyaAllah*

This blog was actually made for an update that related to my handy-craft hobbies activity which i have create & done a lot recently.. but yah, its okay.. i love to write & share things i love to each and everyone.. <3 

The Resolutions?? i have Loooong list to achieve this year! for whatever your resolutions & hope it is, may this 2012 bring more & great opportunity & happiness to evryone ... praying hard that everything will be alright & may Allah bless us thru every path we've take .. *amin ya rabbal alamin*